Dear plaything-to-be,


Welcome to My universe.


Leave the world behind you and

enter this realm of power exchange.

A discerning plaything like you seek for your mind to be liberated. To serve an alpha feminine muse with an alternative lifestyle.

​Everyone is a deck of cards.

Would you like to find out what I have in spades?

Learn more about Me and

I look forward to your servitude, soon.


Born and raised in Asia's cosmopolitan city, Singapore. My native language is British English and I am partially multilingual. Blessed with sunkissed olive skin from My mixed Austronesian descent, be aware that I do not have the typical East Asian look.

A lifestyle kink player for more than a decade before I decided to share My universe to the world as an International Professional Dominatrix and BDSM Community Educator.

Previously featured in Domme Addiction Global Interview and Singapore's NTUniversity Journalism- Sex in the City.

Don't let My stature fool you. Being petite has not prevented Me from being a visionary leader ever since I was a young child. My definition of empowerment does not only derived from kinky domination. Being well-read and multi-talented is valuable in this ever-changing global world of O/ours.

Be mesmerised by My alluring natural deep double eyelids and sweet deceiving smile when I hear you moan. For the feet fetishists, meet My divine pair of UK 3 high arches.

I do not provide a service. I offer the opportunity to serve.

I am selective on whom I choose to connect with as your chemistry with Me is crucial.


My satisfaction derives from your genuine servitude regardless of your experience level.

I adore the intellectual connection between U/us and your ongoing devotion for Me - where boundaries, discretion, hygiene, safety and consent are respected. Pain or leaving marks is not compulsory, it's a choice.


Sensual and gentle domination when you behave and ruthless if your behaviour needs correction. One of My forte lies in tantra bondage.

My off-limits include sexual intimacy/intercourse, scripts, anything illegal/drugs, brown/roman showers, blood, needles, minors, animals, and permanent body modifications.

I frequently travel to connect with the BDSM community and Dominatrices, attend conventions and workshops to upgrade My skills.


If you're fortunate enough, you will have the chance to serve Me at My convenience when I'm visiting your city. Reserve My time early so that I am able to plan ahead and pack My luggage accordingly.


Oh dear, you missed out My OZ Autumn trip in March!

I'll be returning back in Spring 2020 or Autumn 2021 - After the pandemic is over.

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Incall slots are limited and are held in luxury hotels in CBD. Kindly submit your availability in My contact form with your preferred days and time.

Do note that a skype/kik video interview is required to see if W/we compatible to meet.


1. Be self-aware of your off-limits, showing responsibility for your own well-being. Ensure that you've done your research about Me and understood.

2. When filling up the application form, imagine as if you're applying for a job. Read carefully, be courteous and type in proper English sentence(s) or to the best of your knowledge if that's not your native language.

3. If your application is approved, I will ask you further questions and answer truthfully as that will allow Me to understand more about you.

4. I will arrange a voice/video call to see whether we are suitable for each other. If it goes well, I will send to you My terms and conditions before you place the deposit via a payment gateway (Debit/Credit Card).

5. W/we will discuss further virtually before W/we meet in real-time. I will only reveal the exact location to meet only the day before.

6. The day of the session - Do not be late. Shower facility will be available and this is to upkeep your personal hygiene. I will also ask you if you have any curfew so you will not break it if I decided to keep you longer than expected. The time listed is just a guide hence an estimated duration.


Once you are ready, confess and confide your unspoken inner desires with Me.


I look forward to learning more about you and yet respecting your limits.


My time is precious and I will only direct My attention to plaything-to-be that is worth to build a connection with.


If your application is incomplete or disrespectful, I will assume you're a timewaster and will not respond.


Incite  |  AUD1100
* An introduction of yourself to Me
or brief catch up for existing plaything
(Estimated duration: 1.5 to 2 hours)


Adore  |  AUD1400
* Present your devotion for Me

(Estimated duration: 3 hours)

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* A non-refundable deposit is required to secure My precious time with you and also enable Me to plan ahead. Those who served before, My former tribute rates when W/we first connected remains the same,

*My tribute rates are fixed regardless of interests and are non-negotiable. Tributes are similar in ALL cities including My hometown, Singapore, depending on current bank FX.




I often post My Femdom musings in My virtual diary and various social platforms such as -


Instagram   |   Twitter   |   Youtube  Fetlife



If you're shy or miles away from where I am, I welcome you to join My slave exclusive where you will be closer to Me, gaining My attention, virtually. Alternatively, invest in Me.


Apart from Domming, My spare time is spent interacting with other kinky people during events and munches, sharing knowledge and experiences. I believe that identifying Myself as a Domme does not entitle Me to be imperious at all times especially in a social setting.

© Mistress Caittrin  |  Asian Dominatrix  |  Femdom Lifestyle Domme

 Based in Asia - Singapore, travels APAC & beyond

Hong Kong, Jakarta, Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Auckland, Wellington, Christchurch


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