BDSM GUIDE
For those exploring or seeking clarity,
this is an introduction to commonly used terminology within this space.
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Along the way, you may notice subtle reflections of My own preferences & desires.
ORGASM CONTROL
The art of heightening anticipation and surrender, delaying release, teasing pleasure, or even guiding you through ruined orgasms and post-torture sensations. It’s about mastering your desire, where control amplifies connection and intensifies every moment. Perhaps, just Jerk Off Instructions (JOI) too.
SISSYFICATION
Ever wondered how you’d look in something… a little softer? Maybe a swirl of satin panties, a hint of lace there, and suddenly that confident swagger melts into a shy smile. I’ll coax you into stockings, decorate you with flowers, maybe even heels you swore you’d never try, just to see how pretty you can be for Me. It’s not about changing who you are… just letting Me unwrap that other side you’ve been curious about.
RESTRAINTS
My favourite art of restraint, bondage/shibari floorwork that fosters closeness, deep eye contact, and teasing control. I typically use Japanese Jute ropes. Alternatively, leather cuffs, shackles or metal chains for restraint. I do not play with metal handcuffs.
OBJECTIFICATION
​In these scenes, the submissive becomes part of the setting, serving as a human furniture such as a table, footstool, or seating. Sometimes, paired with trampling, where I step or walk on the body treating you as an object.
ANAL TRAINING
In My hands, anal play is an art of patience and trust. W/we begin with gentle training, introducing smaller toys or fingers, to help your body relax and adapt. Â As your confidence grows, W/we may explore the deeper sensations of strap-on play, pegging, or prostate massage.
SENSORY PLAY
​Where every sense becomes a playground. Blindfolds heighten touch, whispered commands send shivers, tickling till you burst out laughing, a brush of ice or a warm breath awakens skin. Sometimes I’ll let you hear nothing but white noise, lost in Me. My favourite? Watching you squirm as I claim your nipples, such perfect buttons to press.
BREATH PLAY
Breath slows under My control, each inhale a gift, each exhale a surrender. Pinned beneath Me, the air you crave becomes a privilege, not a right. Wrapped in satin wrap or silenced with a gag, your world narrows until only My will remains, each moment a delicious reminder of who decides when you breathe. Do note that full mummification does not interest Me.
MEDICAL PLAY
My medical play focuses on light, consensual exploration or roleplay. I use a controlled, low-intensity electrical stimulation to heighten pleasure without discomfort. Perhaps, mild urethral sounding with sterile equipment. Safety, hygiene, and trust are always paramount. Please note, needle play, blood play, and intense or invasive medical activities are strictly hard limits and not part of My practice.
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