Etiquette & FAQ
Your first contact | How to communicate with Me
How do I address you?
Pronoun (She/Her). Mistress Caittrin, Miss Caittrin, Miss Yrin.
(First syllable pronunciation should be Kate and not Cat)
My nickname Yrin should only be used during casual events (Eg. Kink Workshops & Munches)
Why don't you show your face? Is it because you're ugly?
I value My privacy and I do not want to jeopardise our meet due to external factors (Eg. Authorities, Hotel Staffs or even your colleagues/partners/friends). It creeps Me out that people can recognise Me from afar.
Beauty is subjective and many says I fall into the 'cute' category. It's mindfucking to know someone petite with an innocent face can dominate you *wink*. As mentioned, I came from a mixed Austronesian descent and do not have the typical East Asian look but I'm sure you'll be mesmerised by My alluring natural deep double lids and sweet deceiving smile.
Growing up in a metropolitan city in Asia (Singapore), English is My first language. I expect full sentences and correct grammar from you (To the best of your knowledge if English is not your native language). Use an online translator if you need help.
I detest the word 'Client' and you must remove it completely in your vocabulary when communicating with Me. All playthings (Regardless with tribute) who are serving Me including you are referred as 'sub, slave or plaything'.
Be polite. Incomplete submission of application, begging and desperation will be ignored. You will have the chance to serve Me if I feel potential connection with you.
I'm a woman - A human being and not an object. Respect Me, including My body. Same goes to you do not objectify your female co-workers in corporate office or professors in a university. Your tone, behavior and choice of words should be the same in a professional setting. What makes Me any different than your lady boss or female professor other than the fact that I'm just kinkier?
When sending your application to serve Me, imagine sending your resume for a job application. Make an effort to write something constructive and substantial for you to be selected.
Respect My Time
I am in charge of all My platforms and communication channels and hence, do have patience. Emails will be replied within 48 hours. I have a life outside of play sessions and My time is not devoted to only you.
Email is the best way to communicate with Me as it is connected to all of My tech devices. A non-refundable deposit is required to secure a reservation to show you’re committed to meet Me. An apology fee is required if you decided not to meet Me in real life for a play session. When you finally get to meet Me for a play session, do not be late.
Definition of Hosting / In-call / Out-call
Hosting and in-call means that you will come at My convenience (A play space is provided and included in the tribute rates) at the time slot that we've agreed on.
If you've a hotel room, service apartment or private residence, out-call is available to your venue at the date and time that we've agreed, depending whether our schedule matches. Only applicable in Singapore.
Can we chat?
My time is precious. I limit My screen time and do not chat with you online unless necessary. I prefer real life interactions and at My convenience. Read here.
Do you accept Personal Slave / Sub / Pet?
Again, My time is precious. My requirement is strict and you'll have to serve Me 24/7 regardless virtually or physically. To be My personal slave also means that I really like you alot, as a slave, and we have plenty of mutual interests or great connection after many months of knowing each other. Hence, personal slave just at is, is not possible. Asking Me to own you when I don't even know you sounds too much isn't it?
Are you ready to serve Me?
Do your interests align with Mine? Or does it inspire you to serve Me because of how I lead My life? If you believe W/we have potential chemistry, I look forward to your servitude.
Most of My time is spent in My cosmopolitan hometown in Asia, Singapore. If you're fortunate enough, you will have the chance to serve Me at My convenience when I'm visiting your city.