ETIQUETTE& FAQ
HOW DO I SERVE YOU IN REAL-TIME?
Kindly schedule to introduce yourself via My 'First Connection' form. I will be in touch with you to know more about you, your kinks and etcetra. Treat it as a job interview. If you're qualified, you will have the opportunity to serve Me in real-time.
THIS IS MY FIRST TIME / I AM A NOVICE, HOW DO I WORK ON MY MANNERISM?
Ensure you've read My website in its entirety. I will only communicate with literate, self-aware, polite and respectful individuals.
I'm a Lady - A human being and not an object. Respect Me, including My body. Same goes for your vanilla life, do not objectify your female co-workers in corporate office or professors in a university.
Your tone, behaviour and choice of words should be the same in a professional setting. What makes Me any different from your Lady boss or female professor other than the fact that I'm just kinkier?
WHY DON'T YOU REVEAL YOUR FACE? IS IT BECAUSE YOU'RE UNATTRACTIVE?
I value cybersecurity and your privacy. I do not want to jeopardise O/our meet due to external factors (Eg. Authorities, Hotel Staffs or your colleagues/partners/friends). you'll be surprised that people are able to recognise Me based on My unique dressing even without looking at My face.
HOW DO YOU LOOK LIKE?
Beauty is subjective and I understand that not everyone will fancy My appearance. I'm in My late 20s but people who have met Me mentioned that I look like I am just of a legal age. I guess it's a compliment for looking young?
Also, do not always assume that being Asian I would have the typical East Asian facial feature. Unfortunately, that's not how the world is.
I'm from a mixed Asian descent with sunkissed olive skin. Petite stature with divine pair of UK3 high arch feet. I'm sure you'll be mesmerised by My alluring natural deep double eyelids and sweet deceiving smile. I do not have any tattoos or body/face piercings except My ears for a pair of earrings.
WHAT IS YOUR LANGUAGE OF COMMUNICATION?
British English is My native language and it is My preferred language of communication. However, I am also a polyglot but will only use it depending on the context and situation.
I expect full sentences and correct grammar from you (To the best of your knowledge if English is not your native language). Use an online translator if you require assistance.
I detest the word 'Client' as I'm not providing a service. I offer selected individuals the opportunity to serve a Lady.
WHAT CAN I EXPECT IF I AM QUALIFIED TO SERVE YOU IN REAL-TIME?
After O/our first connection, you will be allowed to schedule your first real-life date with Me. My investment tribute rates depends on the duration and differs in each city.
I'll be sending you My terms and conditions via email before you place the non-refundable deposit. An apology fee would be required if you request to serve Me but decide not to proceed in the end.
Remember to have enough rest and stay hydrated. Let O/our rendezvous flow naturally and see where O/our journey takes us to.
Erotic interactions have to be negotiated and consented to. you will obey My commands and play under My terms within your established limits.
BDSM and power exchange solely relies on trust. Utmost transparency is paramount. Ask for clarification if you are not clear with My instructions. Do not assume unless you've known Me very well.
DOES IT GET SEXUAL WITH YOU?
I am a Dominatrix and not an escort. There will be no intimacy, rimming, intercourse or sexual activities that ends with a 'job'. Do note that I am not a commodity or an object. My body is NOT a masturbation toy. Touching, licking or kissing without My consent is sexual assault.
WHAT TYPE OF DOMINATRIX ARE YOU?
My Philosophy: Inclusive yet decisive, Intuitive yet rational, Nurturing yet assertive & Driven yet fair.
I do not provide a service. I offer you the opportunity to serve a modern-day Renaissance Lady with an alternative lifestyle.
If you are looking for a service-based Domme to dominate you and fulfill your temporary kink fix or reenact that fantasy you watch from p*rngraphy, I am not the Lady for you. My methods are entirely different from an average fetish provider. This is not a quick money-making job for Me.
I value genuine power exchange and long-term D/s relationship connection. Being worshiped by playthings who appreciate for who I am - Both in vanilla and kink. Quality over quantity, always.
WHAT ARE YOUR KINKS AND BOUNDARIES?
My kink interests differ from day to day depending on what I am in the mood as long it doesn't cross O/our boundaries. My forte lies in tantra bondage and had spent hours in rope education within the kink community worldwide.
Strictly no intercourse, intimacy, rimming, sexual activities that ends with a 'job' and kinks that involves blood, needle, hardsports, children, animals and ABDL.
If you are curious to know more about BDSM, Femdom and what are the common kinks out there, I've written a brief guide here.
WHAT MAKES YOU DECIDE TO SHARE YOUR UNIVERSE TO THE WORLD?
After playing privately in My personal life for over a decade, I decided to challenge Myself to learn and explore with playthings all over the world. Those who would love to serve Me for who I am but unable to worship Me 24/7 due to personal commitments.
Everyone is unique with different kink interests and boundaries. It also allows Me to adapt accordingly and understand Myself more in depth.
During My kink travel, I enjoy connecting with other kink communities, Dominatrices, NGOs and playthings who have communicated with Me prior to My arrival, are allowed to serve Me in real-time.
I AM SHY AND DO NOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO SERVE YOU IN REAL-TIME YET. ARE THERE OTHER WAYS TO BE CLOSER TO YOU AND GAIN CONFIDENCE?
I understand that not everyone has the courage to step out of their comfort zone. Feel free to subscribe to My AVN Stars social platform. Alternatively, sign up as a member in My Virtual Stable where there will be weekly tasks, slave training courses & etc.
DO YOU ACCEPT PERSONAL SLAVES?
Yes but I do not trust and accept strangers to serve Me personally. There should be some form of connection prior to that.
It is a requirement for you to have the financial stability to serve Me in a functional manner. I don't expect a high level of financial servitude. I do have subs who are still students but yet they are more capable than a "full-time working adult" who expect more but give less.
Do note that you're not the only one who will be serving Me. My time and energy is limited and I will not respond to anything subpar. Once I own you, you will be worshipping Me only. I welcome all genders and sexuality. I have a soft spot for first-timers/novices if you're willing to learn. If you're an experienced player, I expect no less from you but do not assume I am the same as your previous owner.
I look forward to your genuine servitude, regardless of your experience level, and let’s see where O/our journey takes us to. I welcome respectful individuals/couples from all genders, marital status, nationalities and races. I do not tolerate time wasters, bad manners and excessive annoyance.
However, My time and energy is precious and will only direct My attention to plaything-to-be that is worth to build a connection with - Emotional, spiritual and physical level. Guiding you, slowly and firmly but never micromanage.