International Featured Interview by Domme Addiction

I would like to thank Slave Boy Smith for his presence and taking time to craft the article.

For slaves who have not been following Me since the very beginning when I started out My Tumblr blog - Here's a good chance to get an insight of who I am.

slaveboysmith: Joining me today, all the way from Singapore, is the very beautiful and sensual Mistress Caittrin. Mistress, it is such a pleasure to connect with you and welcome to DA!

Mistress Caittrin: Greetings Slave Boy. Glad to connect with you too from the other side of the globe.

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sbs: Although we are separated by distance, I respectfully kneel before you as I ask my first question. Let me begin by asking how you came to become a Femdom Mistress, and can you share a little about your experiences along the way?

MC: Glad to share with you and the rest of the readers! I started out as a lifestyle player when I was a virgin teen – knowing nothing about BDSM. Back in school, I felt I was different than the rest of the girls around Me. I communicate better with males. I’m able to connect with them deeper and understand them further or even explicitly to their type of preferences in bed or even girls. I believe that’s how I’m open to listening to men/slaves fantasies and not be disgusted about it.

My first play experience was from this young boy I met from an online game forum and he was a keyboard warrior calling others dogs. I met him in real life and bought for him a dog leash and collar – Demanding him to bark like a dog and he really did – Not resisting it. I used to lock him (and an ex-cat of Mine) up in My closet for hours. The typical Asian thing that you can’t let the family know that a guy is in the house.

I knew of a local pro Domme in Singapore but it didn’t come across My mind to be one because her style differs from Mine (Eg. Stuffing slaves head in the toilet bowl). In recent years, I found the local kink community and finally found My place in life – realizing that what I’ve been doing for my entire life is actually Femdom.

Being a Mistress professionally and as a lifestyle player is a completely different thing and I believe I somehow help slaves who do not have the luxury to play or get a play partner experience Femdom. I hope to spread the love of Femdom more, gradually.

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sbs: That is certainly an intriguing start, Mistress. Do you have a preferred type of slave that you particularly enjoy training, and what fetishes do you enjoy exploring both in session, and online?

MC: My main kink interest with slaves are mainly through service servitude and discipline- Regardless a slave or a sissy. Simple things from helping Me to polish My latex clothing, lacing up My boots or giving massages. I don’t like each play session to be the same and hence roleplay keeps Me excited. What will we be next when we play again?

When it comes to fetishes and play – Orgasm Control is My favourite, together with rope bondage. It’s perfect! Foot worship is also one of My kinks that I enjoy as I have sensitive feet. I’m more into sensual domination. Even when I do corporal punishments or caning – I will do it seductively yet firm.

Online is not My main focus for now. I’m planning to do voice clips, similar to ASMR, in the the near future.

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sbs: It’s not hard to imagine with someone as beautiful as yourself that denying what a slave would ache for, that release before his dream Mistress, would be a favourite fetish of yours. Has it become routine to know that men will fall before you and submit, or does it still thrill you knowing the power you hold over any man you set your sights upon?

MC: When it comes to a play session, they (men) will naturally know I’m in charge and will feel the vibe once they set foot into My play area. I do have feedback that it feels intimidating for them.

When it comes to a vanilla social setting, men tend to perceive dominant woman to be tall but I’m the complete opposite. When they do not know that I’m a Domme – It gives Me the thrill of mindfucking like I know what they really need, to be weak and let go of themselves sometimes.

I believe as a Mistress/Domme – How you portray yourself even in vanilla life from the way you walk and your speech does matter.

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sbs: Have the two aspects of your life ever merged? Have you been recognized in public by someone who has sessioned with you, or seen you online, and if so, how do they react to being in the presence of the woman of their dreams?

MC: Somehow I feel like I live My kink life 24/7. I look pretty much the same in and out of session but I do have My vanilla friends (who are actually kinky too) that found My profile and know it’s Me even though I don’t show My face for privacy purposes.

I frequently go to kink events or sometimes meet up with my loyal followers for meals. It’s funny because they tend to get dumbfounded when they meet Me in real life because they have this perception of a fierce, unfriendly and strict Domme look in their head.

In actual fact, I have that innocent look and am always mistaken as a sub – (All the time) Or sometimes being too friendly. However, they like who I am (Being friendly) to them because they do not have to be shy or ashamed of opening up or sharing their fantasies and fetishes with Me.

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sbs: We spoke of men bowing to their knees before you in sessions. Do you also have female submissives that you dominate, or is it always men? If yes, is there a difference in a session with a male slave compared to a female?

MC: At the moment, I do not have female submissives in sessions but I do have female subs who would like to play with Me on a casual basis but I’ve not done it in real life before. I am still in the midst of exploring and learning but currently, My toys and skills are geared towards male slaves. I feel more comfortable playing with men.

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sbs: When you have a man in your dungeon, kneeling as I am today, how does it feel to have them completely wrapped around your little finger and willing to do whatever it takes to please you? Can you describe the encounter from your perspective?

MC: Before you crawl to Me, you should know that you need to earn your right to be a useful slave that I love. I seek genuine submission as I demand you do the tasks or ask for your opinion.

You’re at My whims and fancy. It’s amusing to see how you can fail at tasks that are so easy to complete and that’s because you’re nervous and afraid. Too afraid of doing the wrong things. I will toy with your weaknesses and use them against you.

When we play, the more you struggle in your predicament bondage, the more likely you will see the smirk on My face because I know you can’t escape when I put the vibrator on your sensitive spot. Hearing you moan in genuine pleasure, makes Me wetter.

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sbs: Oh my god! You do love the tease, that’s obvious in your responses. What is the typical reaction of a slave as they hear the click of your heels on the dungeon floor as you circle them, explaining what you are about to do to them and what they will experience in your presence?

MC: I don’t really tell them what I will explicitly do to them but I will ask them what they think I will do and all they can do is keep guessing, guessing and guessing but they will never get it right. The sound of My heels makes them nervous, even worse, is the sound of My cane and ropes. Every single sound for them is sensitive and they can only hope for the best – A reward when they behave well.

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sbs: I don’t think I’m alone in feeling that nervous excitement even from here across the world. For those reading this, dreaming of finding themselves in that position before you, what advice would you offer to ensure they make the best possible first impression upon you, Mistress?

MC: I carefully select slaves who I choose to meet. They must be genuine in their desire to serve Me and should not be illiterate as I do have a chunk of writeups about Myself and My Domme life through My website and blog. I do not like to repeat Myself or spoon feed and I’m pretty much like an open book.

I believe I do not have very high expectations. As long as a slave comprehends My kinks and My vanilla preferences without Me explicitly telling them verbally, I’m satisfied. I love meaningful conversations and as a slave, you should be well-read too.

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sbs: With all that you’ve spoken of and experienced, what comes next for you Mistress? Anything upcoming that our readers should eagerly anticipate from you?

MC: My resolution this year is to explore and travel the world – Meeting other Dominatrices and kink communities. I hope through Professional Domination, it will bring Me to places. Also, keep a look out for My voice clips which will be published online in months to come and you will dream of Me every, single, night.

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sbs: Are there specific Dommes out there, who might be reading this, that you would be very excited to meet and perhaps work with?

MC: A loyal slave of Mine gifted Me a book written by Lady Sas and that’s how I discovered OWK. I would love to meet the wonderful ladies from there although our style of domination differs. I’ve not decided who I want to work with but it will be great to find other International Domme(s) where our kinks align.

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sbs: I don’t think I’m alone in finding the prospect of that very exciting Mistress. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions today. Any final words for your admiring submissives and slaves worldwide?

MC: I appreciate your time too Slave Boy! Before I head off to bed, (Time check 3.55am) – For the newbies, do not be afraid to seek and meet the Mistress that you admire. They are your muse. All of us are different and it’s pretty much like soul searching. When you get hold of it, do not lose your chance. Make your first impression the best one. As for veteran players, it’s good to explore sometimes as, after all, it’s part of self-growth. A new perspective in life before heading back to your favourite.

I hope to get in touch with My slaves who’ve been admiring Me through their screens. Don’t keep Me waiting for too long before serving Me – Either in real life or through My online slave exclusive where I share more about My kinks & Femdom life.

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sbs: It was such a pleasure to be in your presence Mistress. If I may ask one final question before crawling away and apologizing for keeping you up so late, I would ask you how this interview might end if I were to be kneeling in person before you, spellbound by your beauty and dominance.

MC: Holding up your chin, lifting it up as I gaze into your eyes. Slowly stroking your head – I hope to be able to meet you again soon, perhaps for tea or a meal. I appreciate your time together with Me. Thank you Slave Boy.

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Interview article first published here: http://dommeaddiction.com/feature-interview-mistress-caittrin/