Dear you,

I am Caittrin Lee and welcome to My universe. A BDSM Lifestyler for more than a decade before I decided to share My alternative universe to the world as a Professional & Lifestyle Dominatrix.

Mainly based in Asia’s cosmopolitan city, My hometown, Singapore. I spend My remaining kink time giving back as an educator and currently lead a non-profit BDSM community group - KinkED Singapore.



I travel solely for kink activities such as to expand My knowledge by attending advanced workshops and connect with the community.

My travel city list is exhaustive but mainly to Hong Kong, Brisbane, Melbourne, Jakarta, Wellington, London, Canada cities and Europe major cities. If you are deemed worthy, you will be able to serve Me during My travels.


​Inclusive yet decisive
Intuitive yet rational
Nurturing yet assertive

Driven yet fair



Dominance to Me is not a roleplay. It's ingrained in My personality. I thrive through connecting with selected individuals from all walks of life.

Despite identifying Myself as a Domme, I believe it does not entitle Me to be imperious at all times. you will admire Me even more with My vivacious self outside out of My play headspace.


Beyond the salmon-pink newspaper lies a poised and petite modern-day renaissance Lady. My vanilla topic interests lie in design, architecture, socioeconomic, fintech, computer science, real estate and more.



I am a polyglot but My native language is British English and it will be O/our primary language of communication. I spend My idle time volunteering and indulging in non-fiction and self-betterment books with low tea. I'm also an advocator of various causes.

If you would like to know more about My way of life, preferences or gift guide, I encourage you to sign up as a private member in My Virtual Stable.


I may be mean as a Dominatrix but not unreasonable. The world out there is much cruel outside of this enclosed space. Help those who can’t help themselves to earn My respect and gratitude. Here are My favourite local organisations:


| Project X

| Action for Singapore Dogs


| Lok Hong Social Service Association (For Stray Animals)


| Allergy and Immunology Foundation of Australasia

| Cancer Council
| Scarlet Alliance



Admire My sunkissed olive skin with no tattoo or enhancement. Again and again, be mesmerised by My alluring natural deep double eyelids gazing at you with sweet deceiving smile. Worshipping My divine UK 3 high arch feet if you've earned My trust.


From an Austronesian descent, do note that I do not have an East Asian facial features. I value cybersecurity and hence I do not reveal My face over in the cyberspace.

Kink is also an avenue for Me to flaunt My personal dressing style without judgements in the vanilla world. I've always been inspired by alternative designers such as Vivienne Westwood, Alexander Mcqueen and Ann Demeulemeester.


My kink interests differ from day to day depending on what I am in the mood as long it doesn't cross O/our boundaries. My forte lies in tantra bondage and had spent hours on rope education within the kink community worldwide.

I adore being served and worshipped by self-aware playthings with proper mannerism. One who appreciate My precious time, effort and energy. Making My life simpler, not harder. Those with servitude values are service-oriented and intelligent obedience to feed My sapiosexual self. I don't expect you to be hunky but rather live life healthily, care for your well-being and dresses well.

Strictly no intercourse, intimacy, rimming, sexual activities that end with a 'job' and kinks that involves blood, needle, hardsports, children, animals and ABDL.

If you are curious to know more about BDSM, Femdom and what are the common kinks out there, I've written a brief guide here.

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© International Mistress Caittrin  |  Asian Dominatrix  |  Femdom Lifestyle Domme

 Based in Asia - Singapore - Travel to APAC & beyond

Berlin, Brisbane, Calgary, Hong Kong, Jakarta, Melbourne, Montreal, Los Angeles, London, Vancouver, Zurich


Website Design, Copywriting & Graphic Works Done By Yours Truly


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