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Her Philosophy:
Inclusive yet decisive,
Intuitive yet rational,
Nurturing yet assertive &
Driven yet fair


Dear you,
Thank you and appreciate your interest to know more about Me. I am Caittrin Lee, a modern-day renaissance Lady with an alternative universe. An International Professional Dominatrix, Erotic Power Exchange Executive Coach and Sex-Positivity/Kink-Allied Therapist. I also give back to the BDSM community as an educator and moderator for a non-profit kink group in Asia, Singapore.

Dominance to Me is not roleplay. It's ingrained in My personality. Despite identifying Myself as a Domme, I believe it does not entitle Me to be imperious at all times. you will admire Me even more with My vivacious self outside out of My play headspace.


Being well-read, multi-talented and a visionary leader is of much value in this ever-changing global world of O/ours. An avid reader of non-fiction books, flipping FT and having a conversation about fintech, cybersecurity & AI, real estate, fashion to name a few. Learn more about My vanilla preferences here.

I enjoy to travel solely for kink and connect with other communities, Dominatrices, NGOs and playthings who have communicated with Me prior to My arrival, are allowed to serve Me in real-time. I can also be found upgrading My skills through workshops and attend events or conventions. Feel free to say hello!



I'm in My early 30s but I still get carded for purchasing alcohol. Seems it's a compliment for looking youthful! From mixed Asian descent, do not always assume I have an East Asian facial feature. I do not have body/face piercings except My ears for a pair of exquisite earrings.

Admire My sunkissed olive skin with no tattoo or enhancement. Again and again, be mesmerised by My alluring natural deep double eyelids gazing at you with a sweet deceiving smile. Worshipping My divine UK 3 high arch feet if you've earned My trust. Being petite and barely 5 feet tall, more reason for you to be kneeling or crawling in My presence.

I value cybersecurity and your privacy. Hence, I do not reveal My full face over in cyberspace. Also, I do not want to jeopardise O/our meet due to external factors (Eg. Authorities, Hotel Staffs or your colleagues/partners/friends). you'll be surprised that people are able to recognise Me based on My unique dressing even without looking at My face.

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After indulging in the BDSM lifestyle and Female Led Relationships (FLR) for over a decade privately, I decided to challenge Myself to learn and explore with playthings all over the world. Those who would love to serve Me for who I am but unable to worship Me 24/7 due to personal commitments.


Everyone is unique with different kink interests and boundaries. It also allows Me to adapt accordingly and understand Myself more in-depth.


If you are looking for a service-based Domme to dominate you and fulfill your temporary kink fix or reenact that fantasy you watch from p*rngraphy, I am not the Lady for you. My methods are entirely different from an average fetish provider. This is not a quick money-making job for Me.



I value genuine power exchange and long-term D/s relationship connection. Being worshipped by playthings who appreciate for who I am - Both in vanilla and kink. Quality over quantity, always. It is not My aim to please everyone.


Erotic interactions have to be negotiated and consented to. you will obey My commands and play under My terms within your established limits. Let O/our rendezvous flow naturally and see where O/our journey takes us to. Pain is not compulsory, it's a choice.


My kink interests differ from day to day depending on what I am in the mood for, who I am playing with and as long it doesn't cross O/our boundaries. My forte lies in tantra bondage and had spent hours in rope education within the kink community worldwide.

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My Satisfactions:

| Worship Me

  (Feet, Legs, Heels, Boots, Gloves, Stockings)

| Fetish Fashion

  (Latex, Leather, PU, Nylons & etc)

| Non-scripted Role Play

| Co-Domination with My Domme Comrades

| Genuine Power Exchange Connection

| Play to Own
| Receive service submission via vanilla tasks

  (Chauffeur, Gardener, Chef & etc)
| Social dates with discreet public play

  (Cafe, Museum, Theatre, Shopping, Gala & etc)

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My Desires to Toy with you:

| Orgasm Control

  (Tease/Denial, Ruined, Post-Torture, Onahole & etc)

| Restraints

  (Shibari, Cuffs, Shackles & etc)

| Sensory Play

  (Deprivation, Overload, Temperature, Blindfolds, Tickle, Breath Control, HOM, Gag, Clothed Facesitting, Ear Plugs, Hypnosis & etc)

| Anal Play

  (Training, Pegging with strap-on, Butt Plug, Fisting)

| Cock & Ball Torture

  (Chastity, Humbler, Ball Busting & etc)

| Corporal Punishments

  (Military Exercises, Judicial Caning, OTK Spanking, Flogging & etc)

| Discipline & Obedience Training

| Humiliation & Degradation

  (SPH, Pet Play, Golden Shower, Spitting, Slapping)

| Medical Play

  (Sounding, Electrics, Enema, Wartenberg Wheel, Prostate Exam)

| Nipples Play


| Sissyfication & Consensual Forced Bi

*Note: This is a non-exhaustive list and I may also have other satisfactions & desires as well which are not stated above.

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In terms of boundaries :

My style of domination does not involve sexual activities, intercourse or any unlawful acts. I do not partake in activities involving scripts, heavy medical play, animals, minors, brown/ruby showers, switching/subbing or allow you to worship any part of body that is typically covered by a bikini. Touching, licking or kissing without My consent is sexual assault.



I thrive on travelling and enjoy meeting new intellectual people regardless of age and exploring cultures/other BDSM communities. Generally, My kink tour brings Me to major cities such as Hong Kong, Brisbane, Melbourne, Jakarta, Wellington, London, Geneva, Zurich & Berlin. I am available for private travel with established playthings.

Born and raised in Asia's cosmopolitan city, Singapore, I am mainly based in My hometown if I'm not in other cities. I need to have My dose of delicious hawker food from time to time.

If you are looking for a change of environment and to serve a Singaporean who is well-read in global affairs and one who does not look like the major ethnicity in Singapore, you're definitely welcome! After all, Singapore is a multi-cultural city.


Kindly schedule O/our first rendezvous at least one to four weeks in advance as My schedule is limited. I will be glad to show you around Singapore and let you indulge in the local dishes if your schedule allows. Would you like to try durian too?


Schedule your First D/s Rendezvous with Me


Only polite requests will be responded within 48 hours. Kindly check your junk mail in case the pigeon got lost.

* Create a lasting impression and stand out from the crowd. Send virtual gift or present to Me in real-life based on My preferences here.
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